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Go at your own pace

Nobody is owed a yes. You can change your mind about a person, a method or a timeline whenever you need to.

How it works

  1. 01

    Say no

    You can slow down, say no or walk away at any point.

  2. 02

    Report pressure

    If someone pushes you toward a method you have said no to, report them with the reason "Pressure about how to conceive".

  3. 03

    Block

    If you feel unsafe, block the person.

Good to know

  • If you are in danger, contact your local emergency services.

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Meet First

Talk, then ask to meet in person somewhere public, before anything is decided.

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The known and unpaid pledge

Every member promises to be here as themselves, and never to pay or be paid.

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Meet people who are here as themselves.

Launching February 14, 2027.

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